There are support groups for people who suffer from everything under the sun, ranging from eating disorders to alcohol abuse. Why are there no support groups for us perfectionists? Hm...probably because we'd be too busy telling ourselves that we don't need support and that we should just keep at it (whatever IT is) until we knock ourselves unconscious.
I realize that this is a form of self abuse, so why do I continue to do it? I will not tolerate failure in myself, even though I know without a doubt that I am as flawed as the next person. I'm also well aware that we learn from our mistakes. Oh yes, those are the lessons I remember best!
So what is it that makes asking for help so difficult? Why do I feel like a failure when I finally admit that I do not know how to do something?
I have a message I'd like to pass along to myself today, and Sarah, I want you to listen and listen well. Go easy on yourself. Love yourself for who you are no matter the outcome of your actions. You are talented and important, and it's okay to lean on others.